Resistant? Or, independent?

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It has become a cliche, how toddlers want to do things themselves, often long before they have the actual skills to do so. We have a spring water dispenser in one of our classrooms 맥 일러스트 다운로드. Three classes of students, toddlers through preschoolers, use it to refill their water bottles. When I first saw it, I was concerned that there would constantly be spills 미스트롯 노래 모음 다운로드. I soon saw that even our toddlers were able to handle the responsibility. I always kind of secretly smile to myself when a child fills his/her water bottle to the brim and has to either take a drink right away or walk very slowly, very carefully, back to the table flower stationery. The person who spills the most? Me, when I replace the 5-gallon container!

One of my graduate courses in counseling had a motto: Notice what you resist Namola Family. This awareness became so ingrained for our class that one of my classmates cross-stitched the word “Notice” into an ornament. Twenty-five years later, that ornament stills hangs on my refrigerator HangulViewer Mac download. We often know that we (or our kiddos) are resisting something; the real wisdom comes in knowing what we resist.

Yesterday, the toddler again didn’t want to put his coat on 왕가네 식구들 다운로드. He was ready to go home, he knew it was cold outside, his mom gave him the opportunity to put it on himself. What was he resisting this time? Perhaps, he needed to up the ante on his independence, bit by bit 세상만사 다운로드. This time, he wanted to choose who laid out his coat for him to flip on himself. I was the chosen one yesterday. I wonder what will happen today?